Pregnant girlfriend's tribute to Leicester teacher killed in bike crash

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The pregnant girlfriend of a teacher killed in a motorcycle accident has spoken of her love for a man determined to improve the lives of his pupils.

PE teacher Mark Elkington, 29, died on the A47, near Skeffington, while riding his beloved bike.

His girlfriend of nine years, Sam Shilton, who is expecting their first child in five months, said: "He died doing what he loved. He did so much for me. He took care of everything.

"Whenever I was worried or scared, he would put his arms around me and make it all go away. He would hug me and everything would be okay.

"It doesn't seem real. I keep expecting him to walk through the door and ask what all the fuss is about."

Mark, of Thurnby Lodge, Leicester – a former pupil of Alderman Newton School – had been out for a ride on Sunday morning and was returning home when he was in collision with a grey Nissan Navara 4x4.

He was pronounced dead at the scene.

Sam, also 29, has moved forward the date of a scan to determine the sex of their baby so she knows before the funeral.

She said: "I was desperate for a girl, he really wanted a boy. Now I want it to be a boy. For him."

Sam has been inundated with messages of support from the children Mark taught at Stonehill High School, in Birstall.

He had devoted himself to encouraging youngsters who were struggling to make a success of their lives.

One boy wrote to Sam: "I will do well in my life. I will make him proud."

Mark's dad, Richard, of Glenfield, said: "He was a real role model to them and he put his heart and soul into it.

He said to me: 'If I can make a difference to just one of them, it will have been worth it'."

Richard will go for "one last ride" with his son, as his body is taken by motorcycle to his funeral. He said: "It'll be hard but he loved to go out on his bike with his dad."

Mark was a successful bodybuilder and won a national competition last year.

Richard said: "He was nothing like the typical ignorant bodybuilder some people might be expecting. He would do anything for anyone.

"He was positive about everything, always wanted to be the best, hated bullying – that's why kids respected him."

He taught at Stonehill for two years and at Longslade Community College before that.

The schools are planning to hold memorial services.

Stonehill head teacher Alan Monks said: "He is a massive loss to the school. I could not think of a more perfect role model for the students.

"He had an unswerving belief in young people. This led to a growth in self-belief of the young people in his care.

"Everyone is devastated. The school has decided we must keep the work he started going."

Mark's funeral takes place at Gilroes Cemetery, Leicester, at 4pm on Thursday, December 3.

Anyone is welcome to attend. Rather than flowers, people can make donations to Stonehill to help it continue Mark's project to encourage pupils.

www.lastingtribute.co.uk/tribute/elkington/3193612

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    by Donald Rowlands, gloucester

    Tuesday, December 15 2009, 12:35PM

    “Everyone will miss you sir
    i will never forget you
    or will no one else
    i rememember your favourite saying when we played rugby
    and football you was a great teacher sir RIP.”

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    by mandy sidwell, leicester

    Friday, December 04 2009, 12:43PM

    “mark u were a lovely lad so sad 2 hear such news remembering the days at espo RIP all all my love 2 marks family xxx”

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    by Jess, Leicestershire

    Thursday, December 03 2009, 2:42PM

    “Sir,

    You were the best pe teacher. and you didn't just tell us to get on with it, you got stuck in there yourself and gave it a go.
    We will all miss you loads sir.
    Army day at Stonehill was amazing, and you motivated us even when we thought we were about to die of exhaustion.
    Thanks for all the great times you gave us.

    xx”

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    by Kaydean, Leicester

    Friday, November 27 2009, 12:32PM

    “R.i.p Mark !! You Will Be Missed So Much !! Was a Wicked P.E Teacher Always There For Us All !! My Thoughts Go Out To His Family And Friends !! xx”

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    by C Kasher, Sileby

    Thursday, November 26 2009, 3:50PM

    “Mr E as the Stonehill kids call him, I didn't know him personally but he taught my daughter Gemma at Stonehill - I informed her of the sad news at the weekend, to which she was very upset. She told me 'he was alway there for her through the good and bad' - so although I didn't know him I'd just like to say a BIG thank you - it seems Mark has made a big impact on his students lives. RIP”

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